I apologise if my writing gave the impression that I was trying to do too much. I just wanted my sane life back - ability to do my duties without struggling a lot.

I don’t think it was your writing, I think your desire for sanity is fine :) but please be kind to yourself if you find it hard now you have a child to care for!

I think I was more incensed by skimming the introduction to Atomic Habits which is just the author boasting about themselves.

Thank you, and you are right. Client side encryption is what I am looking for.