That sounds selfish to me.
jk
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More seriously though, I 100% like the decision to have children.
1. I'm a father of two. I work, and my wife stays home.
2. An alternative would be both of us working, except for my wife stops working for a while when our kids are born.
3. Another alternative would be both of us working, and paying for child care.
Each of these have trade-offs. But whatever way we go, I'm not selfish enough to force everyone to pay for my decision.
That sounds selfish to me.