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One should not set a tactic as a goal. Marriage is buy a way to amplify enjoyment in life. Some marriages are wonderful, some are deadly. To be clear in ones objectives is to hit the mark much easier. Many the married person would be better off finding a new person to enjoy marriage with, than fight desperately to not be in something new.

Thus it's not the staying in a situation that's important, that's but a means to an end.

That being said, flexibility is nice, and if you have more paths to happiness and less paths to sorrow, you are likely to be happier. Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff the saying goes.



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