> if you want to know the correct term with which to express your contempt while pretending to be respectful.
I didn't hear any contempt at all in what they were saying. Nothing like it. I was disappointed to read that, as you usually stay respectful, but that crosses way over the line well into Please don't do this on HN territory.
I wish you had said this directly in the article because I had a tough time figuring out your point.