Except that many brands use Android to power their infotainments these days. People who you talked to obviously didn't quite know what they're talking about - it's like saying embedded Linux on a computer can be "remote hacked" because there's a GNOME userspace exploit somewhere in the world.
I think the person had a qualm about specifically using Android vs an embedded Linux or other embedded software for auto control systems, and the prevalence of Android remote hacks was their concern - they were happy about the state of Android auto and infotainment consoles.
I think they are knowledgeable on the subject but I may be misquoting them or not including some nuance about the security concern.
> Paraphrasing: "You can remote jailbreak Android - do we really want to trust every vehicle in the country to use it for their control systems?"
FSB, GRU, Mossad, MI6, NSA, CIA, GCHQ, DGSE, CSIS, ASD, CSE, BND, NIS, PSIA, GCSB, ISI, RAW, MOIS, MSS, MIT, GIP, CISEN, NIA, RGB, and all other intelligence agencies in the world: "Yes, that is a splendid direction."
On a serious note, with the automotive industry's historical track record with timely updating their car software and doing so for as long as a car is kept running (with the possible exception of Tesla), I'm not sure any OS will be sufficient. Without some legal definition of orphaned automotive software being something like X unfixed CERT vulnerabilities over Y years, and legally-mandated regulation that open sources the ability to load alternative software, that security drift will always be the Achilles heel of any gear that uses software, not just cars.
This is one of the reasons I've become a lot more selective with hardware gear. Any gear that lets me use open source software immediately goes to the top of the evaluation list above closed source vendor software, because I've been stranded way too many times by hardware with closed source software the vendor abandons for a newer model.
The existence of remote attacks was perhaps the most important concern for them on using Android specifically, perhaps I should have phrased it as "remote hijacking/escalation".
Paraphrasing: "You can remote jailbreak Android - do we really want to trust every vehicle in the country to use it for their control systems?"