My solution is... don't try to get the perfect setup.
Learn to just be happy with the defaults and get on with what matters - the work you're using it for. I change maybe 1 or 2 settings on a fresh macOS install and that's it. I don't even change the wallpaper.
> I just need to work
So don't distract yourself with trying to create the perfect setup! Worse is better.
I don't know if Apple know best or not - I didn't say I thought that anywhere and I'm not sure who you're quoting - the point is the opposite - I don't care. As long as the system is usable, get on and use it and actually focus on your work rather than tinkering for the sake of tinkering.
The only war I'm fighting against is wasting my time with system setup.
Defaults are designed for common users, who barely know how to copy and paste.
Their setup is really not working for me.
I want my desktop designed for me, from me. And if the OS thinks, it knows better than me, how to handle things and regulary rearanges or reconfigures, than screw this OS.
Right but when you write it out like that can you see how it doesn’t make sense to expect that from a company? Not reasonable to complain when you don’t get it.
Or not remove the configuration utility, in some cases. No one here asked for telepathy and amazing defaults, but take away my configurability and I get upset.
Think about it like this - every single extra simple boolean configuration option doubles the configuration state space of the program. Add just ten option checkboxes for a feature and you have made the system three-orders of magnitude more complicated. Everyone pays for that complexity.
In reality this added complexity is not always so dramatic, when you have a solid architectural base.
And I believe Windows for example has one.
And windows still runs fine for me without cortana for example. But I have to resort to hacks, to make that change. So I do not demand more features here.
I demand just more control, what features I want to use. That was there and is getting removed for other purposes than complexity of developement.
My solution is... don't try to get the perfect setup.
Learn to just be happy with the defaults and get on with what matters - the work you're using it for. I change maybe 1 or 2 settings on a fresh macOS install and that's it. I don't even change the wallpaper.
> I just need to work
So don't distract yourself with trying to create the perfect setup! Worse is better.