You're really just wrong. If this is your lived experience, you need to understand that the majority of the world has minor conflicts like this all the time. Get out, make friends, go to college and see the circus that is random roommates. When I lived with roommates, there were constant complaints about this or that. X never does the dishes, Y never changes the toilet paper roll. All the time. All men. I've had a lot of friends and seen them have similar issues with roommates or partners.

In my current relationship, I used to complain about my partner never doing the dishes. I eventually stopped giving a shit because I realized I created most of them and it really wasn't much more effort to do a few more. And generally just realized the way to fix most problems is to just fix them.