i would still rather see less considering where tailscale software sits in my privacy/security. at some point i'd ask why do i pay to use this swiss cheese ? (not saying thats the case, but if I were to continue to see more issues)
Yep agreed. I think/hope an incident such as this will create a step change in their security processes. As you said, it only takes a few of these incidents to make it very difficult for the business to recover, especially given the tech savvy customer base.
Vulnerabilities are inevitable, the actions taken in the hours (ideally) and days following the discovery is what matters most.