Having been using gitea at work for a while as an "internal mini-github" (along with a github organisation for stuff that isn't purely internal or would otherwise benefit for that) I have to say it ... hasn't annoyed me noticeably.

So I think I'd put gitea* on that list as well.

(I don't think I disagree with your opinions about the ones you -have- listed)

* and I mean that to include forgejo, I think, though I haven't tried it so YMMV