I really hate that argument, because if you're here to have an actual conversation then the whole "you'll never understand until you x" statement is just you shutting the conversation down.
How about this: living without children at this time in your life where you currently have children is awesome and amazing, and you'll never understand how great it is because you have children. Yes you lived without children before but you were younger then, it's totally different now.
It's impossible for you to disagree with me, because you have no experience in this situation. It's just how reality works. Something something sensibilities.
So you can't have experience of having kids unless you have kids. This is almost along the lines of saying you don't know that getting hit by a car is bad, until you have been. I have plenty of experience with kids, my brothers and sisters have plenty. Not as much experience as a parent, clearly, but enough to know what I want.
It is impossible to speak about any subject intelligently unless you have experience with it.
That's just how reality works.
If that offends your sensibilities, may I suggest you're a tad too sensitive?