> Jobs was and is slammed regularly for abandoning his first child and for his erratic behavior.

I looked for some citations, and I did find a few:

  http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3161927
  http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3229495
  http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3926052

Source: http://www.hnsearch.com/search#request/all&q=steve+jobs+... (search also for "steve jobs child", and leave out the "steve" if you feel like sorting through a bunch of unrelated stuff)