It's what technology is leveraged for that determines the value of something. Planes were used by individuals to crash into a building. What lead to that hate existing? Could technology have been used proactively and prevented it- and in a non-violent, kind way?
I would posit that nature is incredibly violent, and humans as a subset of nature are incredibly violent too, yet "technology" (in the loosest sense- rule of law, trade, etc) has allowed us to be remarkably less violent than our ancestors, and we're headed down the right path.