I like these sorts of ideas because they come down to trust. One thought I had was to begin curating lists of the best airbnb/homeaway listings to help people find places to stay if they are overwhelmed by the sheer number of available listings.

Any suggestions on family friendly places you've found?

What you are looking for is simply called very expensive hotels :)

Hehe if it only was that simple. :)

I have stayed on many expensive hotels but that is not what we are looking for. We are looking for hotels that are family friendly so other families go there but without it being a family hotel.

We will pay whatever it cost but it's not so easy to find that the balance.